I Went up to Oaktown to visit the Bean. I do this quite often as she is my granddaughter. So nothing different then the usual stuff food and games. Saturday 3am my phone rings it is the Local Police Department. To try to make a life altering call simple..... your partner has made a reckless decision and you must return home. This involved guns and our friend (NOT) Booze.
So home I go. When I returned home he was in jail and I had an important decision to make. I will go into this further once I get this all caught up to what's going on today. So 25 years of marriage lost in 25 seconds snap your fingers that's how fast my life changed. The year that followed this crisis was probably looking back at it one of the most emotional things has ever happened although I've had a lot of stuff happen.This event was what changed my life in ways I could not have imagined. It may of course seem like a rush but file for divorce I did the day after the event. The next project grab my partner's belongings as much as he would need to get along put it in his truck and drop that and the keys off at the jail. My daughter came down from Oakland as emotional support and I couldn't have been happier at the time of course me being so brave and so strong you didn't need anyone. But the day I went to the jail I saw my partner was heartbreaking. There's a part of my story I don't make public because anonymity is everything to me but I've done a sober member of AA for 38 years and drinking is something that I will not tolerate what is that something you ask? Drinking as an active alcoholic. But just so that you know he was aware of this and I do not want to be categorized as a heartless b****. And my partner understood he knew the coincidences of his actions and accepted them probably didn't want to but did. So that's the story to start and get us back on track with our website life and letting you people know what's going on. Some of these posts will have pictures some of them won't because there are many things that I did not take pictures of which I'm sure everyone will be glad. Another thing I will not do is name names because this is my story and it is not my place to tell someone else's part in my life.
So home I go. When I returned home he was in jail and I had an important decision to make. I will go into this further once I get this all caught up to what's going on today. So 25 years of marriage lost in 25 seconds snap your fingers that's how fast my life changed. The year that followed this crisis was probably looking back at it one of the most emotional things has ever happened although I've had a lot of stuff happen.This event was what changed my life in ways I could not have imagined. It may of course seem like a rush but file for divorce I did the day after the event. The next project grab my partner's belongings as much as he would need to get along put it in his truck and drop that and the keys off at the jail. My daughter came down from Oakland as emotional support and I couldn't have been happier at the time of course me being so brave and so strong you didn't need anyone. But the day I went to the jail I saw my partner was heartbreaking. There's a part of my story I don't make public because anonymity is everything to me but I've done a sober member of AA for 38 years and drinking is something that I will not tolerate what is that something you ask? Drinking as an active alcoholic. But just so that you know he was aware of this and I do not want to be categorized as a heartless b****. And my partner understood he knew the coincidences of his actions and accepted them probably didn't want to but did. So that's the story to start and get us back on track with our website life and letting you people know what's going on. Some of these posts will have pictures some of them won't because there are many things that I did not take pictures of which I'm sure everyone will be glad. Another thing I will not do is name names because this is my story and it is not my place to tell someone else's part in my life.
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